Saturday, April 3, 2010

Is that love?

Wow, i couldn't believe a 15 year old would do this, what was she thinking? Being in love is a good thing, but as far as i am concern there's a point in life where she can do all that. Little that she knows she's making a biggest mistake in her life. I'm sure a lot of people might have advise her on her so call decision to get married. If i were in her shoes i would have choose my parents.
A man who really love her would have come up and ask for marriage from the girl's parents, persuading her to runaway does show lack of maturity and insincerity. Seriously, i wish god would give her the guidance as she is too young to make this mistake. What can a 19 year old boy do to support her, i don't feel that both of them are ready for marriage life,seriously i'm 28 and i am really thinking deeply about this.
What is wrong with people this days? What have you become? Day by day they are more weird and unthinkable cases happen. Some are rather not logic. What makes people become so cruel, so selfish, so arrogant? Is it influences from other culture or the person itself. If u guys are reading this, do care more for the people around you especially the younger ones, lead them with good example, show them the right way, educate them, i am really upset with cases of people throwing out babies, what is this! It's rather frustrating.
Pure love are love for your parents and immediate family, to your religion, to the people who cares and guide you to the right way, not to some horny opposite sex. I feel that i am getting angry , really. Anyways it is their life, what can i do is pray, may god show us mercy and guide us till the end and thereafter

2 comments:

Hazim Haemoglobin said...

I feel the same way. angry that youths aren't thinking with their brains and only with their hearts. It;s not always about what you want, but what you need. Advise who you can advise and stay in your stance. That's the most we can do nowadays anyways. And pray they make it out wiser for the experience. Tough love.

Rinie said...

Ya hazim, there's a point in life where we can make our own decision but it is better to also consider parents and friends advise.Do our part for or loves ones ya, god bless